Well, if I had to answer the question in the title of this blog I would have to say nooooooooooooo; with maybe a tiny tinge of yes. A lot of time has passed since our last blog entry because our life has slowly started to get a structure. The day-to-day and ordinary have entered our lives and left their mark. Food shopping, paying bills, cooking meals and school runs are now firmly camped out in our lifestyle like a tramp in a cardboard factory. However, even this aspect of Australian life is exciting because it is in Australia. Food shopping in a store called Woolworths is weird, but fun, because of all the new brands of food there are to try. The cereal aisle is stunning and full of wonderfully coloured boxes that contain food equally as colourful. Kellog’s Fruit Loops are like eating a grated up rainbow, and you should see the colour the milk goes too. So although we are thousands of miles away from England, and in a country that was made by playful cherubs, there is still a little bit of ordinary to deal with (which is easy to do, you just look around). One thing I will say though is that there isn’t room for the word bored out here, there is always somewhere to go or something to do. Read on to see what we have been busying ourselves with over the past few weeks. Take it away pretty wife:
On the first day I got out of hospital Paul took me to see the house for the first time – which was lovely – I was panicking slightly, thinking of all the cleaning an extra large house would need but, thankfully, it is just the right size for us three + guests. It is a two storey, detached ‘town’ house with three bedrooms, two bathrooms and three toilets! On the ground floor there is the lounge, which is a good size for us and it leads to a lovely kitchen (and dishwasher, thankfully!) and a good sized dining area – it is all open plan. Our bedroom is also downstairs and it has an en-suite, with a massive walk in wardrobe! Also downstairs is a huge cupboard under the stairs a linen cupboard a toilet and a laundry room (which is the size of a small bedroom!) and has a sink, cupboards etc. There is also an integral electric double garage, which has been great fun! Our garden gets the sun on it from left to right all day and is full of roses, which adds wonderful colour to the outside. Upstairs is a play area/retreat/study area which has a spectacular view of Geelong and you can also see the sky line of Melbourne too, which is a constant reminder of how close we are to the other City on our doorstep! Also upstairs is Lucy’s bedroom, guest bedroom (all with walk in robes) and a bathroom with shower and bath and separate toilet. So, a great choice by Paul….and all for the same rent for a one-bedroom flat in Littlestone! One thing which came as a pleasant surprise to us is that, when you rent a property, you don’t pay the council tax on top (that is for the landlord to pay). So, the money we pay for the rent is all we have to pay….except for the utilities of course.
Beep, beep. Make way for my comments: the house is banging. It has sooooooo much room and could fit our old house in it twice over. Our cinema sized TV still looks like a portable in this place. The view from upstairs is amazing and being able to see the Melbourne skyscrapers on a clear day is something I’ll never get tired of. The only thing I am slightly apprehensive about is the insect world, and in particular the arachnids. Now, spiders never really bothered me back in England because they can’t harm you, but over here it is a different story altogether. The other day I went into the back yard, turned towards the patio doors to close them and saw a . . . . . . . . . REDBACK. Oh! My! God! Aaaaaarrrrgggggh (followed by a lot more screaming and running around uncontrollably until I hyperventilated)! After calming down I summoned up the courage to approach the eight-legged syringe of death to take a closer look at it, and then whacked it into the afterlife with the force of Thor’s hammer. After this encounter I visited our local DIY shop (called Bunnings, but isn’t actually run by bunnies of any sort) to peruse their Vietnam-war-like-arsenal-of-insect-death-in-a-can aisle to buy some meet-your-insect-maker spray. I returned home to dispense the can’s contents wherever I saw a cobweb and watched the spiders (and any other insect that had hired a spider’s suit for the day) fall to the floor like overripe apples from a tree. Ha! Job done (well, until the effects of the spray wear off in a few months time).
On the afternoon that I got out of hospital we called to see some friends….they have a pool and as it was such a sunny day, Lucy went swimming whilst I sat on the side of the pool with my feet in the water feeling lucky to be alive!
My first night out of hospital was interesting….Paul decided not to sleep in the same bed as me as I was still in pain from the operation and could not get comfortable, so he slept in Lucy’s room. I took some hard drugs to help me sleep and ended up having hallucinations…..so, in the early hours, I telephoned Paul on my mobile phone and told him he had to come and stay with me!
Excuse me please, may I slip some words in here? Getting a phone call in the middle of the night from your wife in the next room is quite bizarre to say the least, but what worried me was the fact that she had been hallucinating about all types of stuff up to this point. What was going to happen to me once she fell back to sleep and started doing it again? Needless to say I was as worried as a Guinea Pig that had got on the wrong bus and ended up at the Fox of the Year contest at lunchtime. So, what did I do? What cunning plan did I come up with to keep my wife comfortable and myself safe? This: Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!
The next day we went to Barwon Heads where they had a seaside fete on. There was your usual pony rides, bouncy castle and face painting BUT, this is AUSTRALIA, so they also had CAMEL rides on the beach and they also had a duck race where they tipped 500 yellow plastic ducks from the bridge into the sea to see which one would reach the shore first!!
Monday was spent shopping for the house; it was like supermarket sweep at one point with us grabbing four trolleys and loading items into them. Paul and I had many discussions about what to get and I am sure he was very pleased that I was hospitalised for the TV part of his previous shopping experience!! We got some really good deals in the sales and felt happy that it didn’t seem to be costing too much of the earth to kit our house out!
The new furniture arrived at the house on Tuesday and Paul spent the day building the beds, while I did some light tidying up…..whilst still trying to rest…..not easy for me, as many of you will know! We stayed at the house for the first time that night and I can tell you that it felt wonderful to have somewhere to call our own after such a long period of time being homeless! Our bedroom is on the ground floor and Lucy has the run of the upstairs, which I am sure will be nice when she has sleep overs! It felt strange for her to be up there on her own, but I think it made her feel quite proud.
Okay good readers, time for me to puff my chest out with pride. I managed to build all the furniture without cursing or using a hammer. Wahoo! It was a fantastic achievement and I even printed myself off a certificate to celebrate my success.
Wednesday and Thursday were spent sorting out the house and then on Friday, we decided that it would be good to look at some schools. Lucy made a good choice on school; it is well resourced has a school uniform shop on site together with a large gym, computer suite, mountain bikes, web books (mini laptops) for the children and a full time canteen where you can get a hot lunch every day if you wish – a relief to Lucy as she loved her school dinners! All the staff were friendly and the children seemed happy. So when the Principal said he wanted Lucy to start on Monday so she could pick up a few play dates before the Easter holiday, she jumped at the chance! For those of you who would like to know the name of the school, please e-mail us and we will gladly let you know so you can check it out on the web. However, in order to be safe on the Internet we feel that it is best not to post the name of her school in our blog. It could seem a bit too cautious but it is better to be safe than sorry, we all know about the WWW’s darker side.
That weekend, we went exploring some more; Lucy has made a list of all the places she would like to visit….including ‘the chocolate room’…..so that’s where we ended up! YUM! We visited Queenscliff and then went to Ocean Grove reserve. Paul wanted to do some bush walking….”not a good idea,” I hear you cry, having only been out of hospital for a week……but I gave it a go. It didn’t last long as I could not walk far and Lucy was not impressed by walking full stop! Also, I was being bitten a lot by mosquitoes…..so we headed back and then took Lucy to a place called A Maze N Games (also on her list), which had golf and a Maze. I sat in the tea rooms and had a lovely cuppa, whilst Paul and Lucy pounded the maze…..
Mind out readers, here comes another blast of PC world: The trek through the reserve was not what I had anticipated and thought it was going to be a bit like a wildlife park where Skippy and his friends would be on show for feeding and petting, and we would be able to meet some of Australia’s more well known wildlife without too much effort. This was not the case though and we soon found out that we were in some of Ocean Grove’s last remaining bush land, complete with creepy silence, armies of ants, colourful butterflies and mosquitoes that behaved like vampires. This bush land was truly eerie and after a fifteen minute walk into it we decided to turn back and head for the car before we became material for the next emergency services television programme.
After wrestling with the Grim Reaper at Ocean Grove Nature Reserve, and coming out victorious, we headed off to try our luck at finding our way around Australia’s largest three dimensional timber maze. This place was a great experience and a real challenge to get around, but I remembered what Dazza S. told me and kept a wall on my left at all times and followed it all the way round; and it worked (apart from when we were near the exit and ducked underneath the partitions to get out because we had had enough). Lucy and I strode into the tea-room-come-maze-exit to claim our prize and meet up with Bec who had been recovering from the bush walk. It was now time to make our way home for a bite to eat before holding a street party to celebrate the day’s triumphs with the inhabitants of our neighbourhood.
Sunday night we had friends round for dinner and it was lovely to entertain again…..however, we forgot that we only have a limited amount of crockery until our set arrives (our shipping is due on 17th April), so Lucy ended up eating from a side plate…..don’t think she noticed though, bless her!
On the Monday, Lucy started school and we were welcomed in to take her to her class. She was fine and the Principal commented how well adjusted she was! He then took Paul’s details and said he would call him if there was any supply work at the school. Paul and I took the opportunity to go to the cinema on our own during the day which was a novelty. The cinema is within walking distance of our house which is even more of a novelty. We saw ‘Knowing’ and as we looked around the cinema, we realised we were only two of five people in there……! The day zoomed by and we collected a beaming Lucy from school. She had made friends with lots of children and one of them was a boy from Ashford, in Kent, who moved here two years ago!!
Remember the mosquito bites I mentioned? Well, by the time Monday lunch time came around, I realised that my right arm was swelling and I had no elbow! So off we trotted to the local pharmacy to get some anti-histamine and anti-itchy cream!! It was quite amusing, however, I got the feeling that Paul was trying to test me out some more: hospitalisation, bush walking, mosquito bites, walking in 32oc heat (see below)….whatever next?
That night, Paul got a phone call from Lucy’s school asking him to go in on Tuesday to teach year 5. On Tuesday morning, they both departed to go to the same school and left me home alone!! It felt weird, but nice to have some time on my own! They both arrived home that evening really happy – Paul was chuffed that he had at last managed to teach in an Australian school and also that he had earned some money!
It was Paul’s birthday on Wednesday and we sprung a surprise present on him…..a coveted RED XBOX…..well, he has been going on about it for AGES and I thought that, as he had done so well over here and looked after Lucy and I so wonderfully, he deserved one. Needless to say, he was beaming – his eyes got bigger when he realised that it would look spectacular on his beloved 50” TV…..little things, hey! To celebrate Paul’s birthday we went with some friends to ‘Pizzaland’…..which pleased Paul enormously too! Lucy and I had also ordered him a ‘birthday doughnut’ from Doughnut King – and it was superb!!
Here I am again. I had a great birthday and loved my presents, and as far as I am concerned you can never have enough XBox 360s (roll on Microsoft’s domination of the electronic world). Thank you to all the readers that sent me birthday wishes in one form or another, they were greatly appreciated. The day was a lot of fun and my first celebration of the onslaught of time in Oz.
I should also let you avid readers know that my wonderful washing machine arrived on Paul’s birthday too! And YES – it did it for me! It was everything I wanted in a washing machine and I proceeded to use if about 6,000 times that day! I cannot wait for the years supply of free washing powder to arrive….if we put a mattress on the top of the boxes, our guests could sleep on them……
On Thursday, the phone rang early in the morning and it was a call from the supply agency which Paul has registered with asking him to work in another school – teaching PE all day (let me just say that this establishment was like being in Beirut and a world away from what I have been used to working in, but kids are kids and schools are great places to be because of them)! So, he dropped Lucy off at school and whizzed off there. However, we quickly realised that we needed to collect Lucy from school that afternoon and that I would have to WALK there to get her, as Paul would not make it in time. Not usually a problem for me…..but I am still not up to strength yet……so I planned to leave myself an hour and a half to do it!! Then, I had a call from a lovely lady called Alison…..the Mum of the boy from Ashford who is in Lucy’s class!! Strangely, they live in the next street to us and she offered to pick me up and take me to the school. I am glad I did, I had not realised that it was 32oc and when Lucy and I later started to walk towards the shopping centre to meet Paul, who was on his way home from school, I only walked slowly for 20 minutes and I was flagging!
I should have mentioned that, on Thursday, Lucy completed her first cross country run at school – she got a ribbon and was really pleased with herself! Well done Lucy!
On Friday, Paul visited some schools to drop his CV off and introduce himself to the Principals. He got his pay cheque from his first day of teaching and was really pleased with himself…..he worked out that he only needs to teach supply for ten days a month for us to be comfortable….Mmmm, not sure about that one Paul! Lucy finished school early (1430) for the holiday and came out of school beaming – she had got all of her spellings right, had been given an Easter Basket with chocolate eggs in…..and…..in full assembly, she was welcomed by the Principal….what more could a little girl ask for?! Apparently, in assembly the Principal also thanked Paul for teaching there and made a comment about hoping he would come back soon……so all in all, Lucy is happy…which makes us enormously happy too. To top it all, that afternoon, Lucy got a call from Callum (the boy from Ashford), who asked if he could come and play…..which made Lucy even happier!
Later, we took Lucy to the cinema to see Monsters Vs Aliens, which was fun. For those of you who know Paul well, he HAS to be at the cinema almost A DAY before the film starts. However, because Callum was here playing with Lucy, we left a bit later…..so….we screeched up to the cinema with only ten minutes to go until the film starts…..still needing to buy tickets AND food……AAAGH! However, when we got there, there was only a handful of people….and we got tickets AND food AND seated within minutes of us walking through the door…..phew! After the cinema, we decided to treat ourselves to a Kentucky drive-thru. Paul will tell you more about the ‘potatoes in gravy’ experience…but I wanted to tell you that, it was a bit breezy here on Friday night and when the lady gave Paul the change for the food, the wind whipped the notes out of his hand and down the street…..he quickly jumped out of the car and ran down the road to retrieve the money…..it was quite amusing……although I tried not to chuckle too much…..!!
Being able to go to a cinema that is only five minutes away is always going to amuse me as I no longer have leave home five hours before the film starts. However, let me tell you about the new product KFC do over here (well, new to us): Potatoes in gravy. Over here in Oz KFC do not do side orders of baked beans (control your screaming good readers), instead you get mashed potato with lashings of gravy on top of it all warmed up with the aid of a microwave. Mmmmmmm! Was it tasty? It was okay but it just wasn’t the right side dish to go with our deep-fried-turkey’s-poor-relation in a crispy coating, chips, coleslaw and Pepsi. Chasing my change down the drive-in was amusing and I did laugh about it myself even though I probably looked like someone looking for fag butts.
On Saturday, we went for a tour of Anglesea and Lorne – it was lovely to see Lucy play in the wonderful parks, run along the beaches and bounce on the trampolines. I don’t think we have ever been out exploring so much……..!
On Sunday we went to ‘Fairy Park’, which is also on Lucy’s wish list. I will leave it to Paul to describe the park (I’ll do that another time) ……..
On our return from Fairy Park, I took Lucy for a walk around the estate to check out the local park. It took us half an hour to walk around only a small part of the estate as we kept stopping to look at all the different types and styles of houses – they are all so HUGE!
We are busy planning what to do during the Easter holiday. Lucy is enrolled in swimming lessons for the first week….and I have my check-up at hospital on the 8th April…..but we will let you know what we get up to on the next entry!